Nice Guy

Bulgaria is full of surprises. I met a Nice guy the other day. That’s the kind of Nice that sounds like niece, not the kind that rhymes with ice. Not that he isn’t nice. He’s from Nice, France. Nice, huh? Rollando, a Frenchman in Bulgaria. If you want to be formal, for example to address an envelope with an engraved invitation to the Ball, you would call him Adrien Rolland Palomba. He also goes by rollandev.com. We met in the lobby of his business, well, virtually of course since his business operates in the online world, and had a nice talk over a virtual cup of espresso.

He is starting to learn Bulgarian, or as he told me, започвам да говоря, “I’m beginning to speak.” He and I communicate in English, mainly because if we had to depend on my one semester of French we could only agree that la plume de ma tante est sur la table. That, and maybe directions to the train station. He speaks a little Dutch too, so if you’re counting don’t forget that one.

Rollando is an IT guy. They’re lucky, those guys, since they can work anywhere. It may be a bit of Gallic understatement when he says he likes to travel. He’s been all over. So he moves to Bulgaria. Bulgaria! Now you may be asking yourself, “Why Bulgaria?” The question has been asked before, eh? (Bulgaria? Why Bulgaria?)

Saint Sofia, representing Divine Wisdom, overlooks the city.

After earning his computer engineering degree, Rollando got started in the business of managing IT (Not it! IT!) and as he says “climbed the steps.” He found himself as the owner and boss of a service that engaged in developing management tools for property developers. After a few years he decided to take a new step and have something of his own. So now that question, why Bulgaria? Let Rollando tell it. “Running a thriving company in France has become a miracle the last decade, unless you have a huge capital and wind at your back. Of course I love France, but I wanted to maximize my chances of success. I found that Bulgaria had a fast growing entrepreneurial ecosystem. Sofia, where I live now, has an efficient airport with cheap flights to most EU destination. Low taxes and low cost of living were a non-negligible bonus.”

A mountain valley, summer. For the winter view, just imagine it all white.

“There were several factors that mattered most in making my choice”, he explained. “First of all, it’s an EU country, even though they’re not using the Euro. It’s just a couple of hours for me to visit France whenever I want to, so being in Europe has that advantage too. And nature, wow! Beautiful! I love the mountains. I happen to like winter too, and temperatures are well below freezing during that time of year. As crazy as it might sound, I like it; I’ve always thought that cold builds spirit and vigor, and helps you feel alive. The seemingly brusque manner of the people is something to get used to, but after all that’s the way of the world.”

That’s how Rollando found himself moving to Bulgaria almost a year ago. He registered his company to sell IT services: developing business process, paperless office, extranet and reporting. Then, as he met partners and developers that he could trust, he decided to start selling websites and mobile apps too which happened to work well. Most of his clients were French or expats living in Sofia at first. “When running a company in Bulgaria, you’d better have a solid network and a big mouth to balance stereotypes that come to mind of potential clients when you let them know where you’re located.” New partnerships recently opened new opportunities in Europe, and Rollando has big clients in the USA in his sights as the next big move. “What I intend to do is show the other side of the Atlantic that Eastern Europe can deliver quality, quickly and at a competitive rate, and that distance or time zones don’t matter if you work with the right persons.”

The Language High School where I taught, named after the German playwright and poet Bertolt Brecht. Students learned German, English, French, and Spanish.

Rollando said that many of the young people learn English, “The language of business,” in school. That was a fairly new development when Stormy and I taught English there as part of our Peace Corps assignment, and I felt a pinch of pride for having been a part of it. The Bulgarian system of “language high schools” is an important outreach to world commerce and culture. He noted that there are even very good French schools. Some of the young Bulgarians he has met have excellent accents, he marveled, “and you wouldn’t tell they’re not French.”

The hardest things, he said, have been ordinary daily activities such as grocery shopping or buying bus tickets. Rollando is on his own, and I can hardly imagine tackling all that without the training we got at the outset of our Peace Corps service. An added problem in daily life, besides the fact that the older people running the shops and driving the buses don’t speak English or French, is that Bulgarian has its own way of saying yes or no with your head. The way you nod to say yes means no, and vice versa. “That once brought me to the exact opposite of where I wanted to go as I asked if the bus would go toward the City Center.” (Boy, could I relate to that!) What looks like “Sure it does!” really means “No it doesn’t!” and you’re happily off to the wrong place. “Still,” he related, “it was a nice bus tour, and I found a supermarket that day which I didn’t know existed here.”

His tales of dealing with the paperwork of setting up a business recalled our travails at City Hall and the Police Department over work permits and visa extensions. He found, as we did, some helpful people to ease the process. That’s the way of Bulgaria. People are used to helping each other.

As for Rollando, he says that having been there for almost a year has confirmed his hunch that it’s a good place to build a business. Though he still likes traveling, for now Sofia is his home base. I’ve read articles from time to time about the advantages of locating businesses in Bulgaria, and how the strong and deep technological strengths of the younger generation are potentially a resource for the world. As Rollando described it, it’s a fast growing entrepreneurial ecosystem. Now it has a Nice guy too!

Good things are happening in Bulgaria.

Back to Bulgaria

Some things stay the same. Generous hospitality, smiles, open hearts of friends. Sitting and talking for hours over a little twenty-cent cup of espresso. Seeing the bright yellow autumn leaves skittering around in little eddies of air while the sidewalk cafés are still open before winter sets in.

We started in Sofia, after marveling at the new modern airport terminal and the no-hassle customs entry from our flight coming in from France. Our stay in the city was hosted by our friend Joe, a former Peace Corps volunteer who returned to Bulgaria and works as a math teacher. He has a luxurious apartment in a perfect location overlooking Journalist Square, a pretty park filled with trees and paths and shops all around. He coached us on getting around by tram, for our few days in the city, and got us off to a good start on the week. After the previous week with our old college friends in France, though, we were at a little disadvantage in trying to pry open the memory banks that held what was left of our Bulgarian language. That was unfortunate especially since the first person we met with was Fani, who had been my Bulgarian language tutor when we lived there. I was a little embarrassed at my groping for words that should have been there but were either missing or wounded beyond recognition. (I should have scheduled meeting her for later in the week.) She was kind and understanding though, as always, and we had a pleasant visit with her and Deni on her lunch hour in Sofia. She is teaching there in the big city — that’s a big change — and Deni has progressed up his career ladder to a position managing the entire national electric grid.

We also had a coffee with their son Hristo, who now has Masters degrees in electrical engineering and French, receiving highest honors in both, and works for an international firm supplying electronic control and monitoring equipment. Hristo, the cheerful and inquisitive little (then) guy who was so knowledgeable about airplanes and everything-science. Still cheerful, and still interested in everything. Looks just like his dad, and as I said about his mom and dad back then, they all “looked at life with enthusiasm, and… worked hard at everything.”

That same evening we had dinner with four of my former students. They’re in their thirties now! How can these few years have made such a change? Elena, the English teacher — oh what a treat it would be to be in her class, such a bright and positive personality! She quoted a line from Shakespeare, from a moment in my English Lit classroom, and recalled the details of that long-ago discussion. And Jana studying for the Bar, and Mitko the journalist and publisher, and Stoyan whose love of physics and hard science is spent these days designing new medical equipment. My kids! They were all so happy to see us, and we them, so heart-warming. As we walked through the dark streets after dinner, walking in the street as always because the cars were on the sidewalks, Stoyan voiced a “who would have thought it,” with both of us appreciating how unlikely and how precious was the strength of friendships formed over so many years and so many miles.

From Sofia we went to Panagyurishte, to see our old host family from training days, Pavlin and Krassimira. Approaching the town we were bowled over by the sight of a giant new regional hospital, where there had just been empty fields before. We knew our friend Dr. Ivan Gerov worked there, so we stopped. He was one of the heroes of our story, a life saver.

New Hospital in Panagyurishte

New Hospital in Panagyurishte

He was in surgery, but if we’d wait he could see us. While we were waiting, with a coffee in the little waiting room café of course, a guy spoke up and asked where we were from. He switched easily from Bulgarian to an unaccented British English, and was eager to talk. He had just gotten some discouraging news about the condition he had come to the hospital to find out about, and striking up a conversation with strangers was not only good; it was necessary. We visited at the little table and learned he was a world-class chess Grandmaster, and that he never did like chess very much. His name was Evgeni Ermenkov. He told us of his childhood and of his world travels, and that he had written a book of short stories based on his life and experiences. He detailed his beliefs about gods and devils, afterlife and mortality, family love and fidelity. After confirming that we could read Bulgarian, he gave us a copy of his book. I realized only now that I should have gotten him to autograph it. Though I read slowly, I have read enough already to see that it’s a fascinating set of stories.

Seeing Dr. Ivan was wonderful. He had been on duty the night of our accident, and was on the spot to make the key decisions about getting the right kind of care. We knew he had worked in Sofia, then in London, then Sofia again in his specialty as an orthopedic trauma surgeon. Big-city doctor, high profile work. I wondered, silently, what it was about this hospital that drew him down to little Panagyurishte. He sensed my question, I think. He told us that it was “the spirit of the Peace Corps” that pulled him there. That took my breath away. To do good for its own sake; to impart something like a volunteer spirit to his fellow doctors; to expand the work of the hospital out beyond its walls: if the Peace Corps left nothing behind but this in Bulgaria, it would be enough.

In Panagyurishte we found bittersweet mixtures of sadness and new joys. The town has changed for the better in some ways, and the lives of some we knew there have been burdened beyond bearing. We had dinner out at a restaurant with Krassi and Pavlin and our old friend Rosen, and we walked the Saturday Market like in old times with Krassi. There is a big new fountain in the expanded city park, that plays music along with a light show and dancing waters. Like many other civic improvements and facilities we saw in the cities, it was paid for with some kind of grant or program arising from Bulgaria’s membership, since 2007, in the European Union. The citizens have enjoyed new hospitals, parks, playgrounds, improved roads and new pavement in public areas. In the villages though, the biggest change we heard about as a result of EU membership was an increase in the rate young people fleeing abroad for work. But in Pazardjik they have potted palm trees in the Center! (What? Yes! Palms! Like in Hollywood!) And a new zoo! With tigers!

Ah yes, Pazardjik, the city where we lived and worked. First thing, we stopped at our old apartment blok. The door to our entrance was always broken, and never had a lock. New door now, locked. No doorbells or buzzers. We wanted to see Grandpa Petko and his family, who had all three apartments on the fourth floor. His son Ilcho (Iuko) was our best friend in the blok, with his wife Raina. We also knew the other son, Vassil, and his wife Sonia, though not as well. While we were puzzling over how to get in, we saw a poster on the wall by the door. It was a necrolog, a memorial notice put up to announce a gathering of friends and family after a death. Raina. Raina! Just then someone came out and she gave us an accusing look as we reached for the door to get in on her exit. A few words of explanation, then OK, go on in. On the mailboxes in the lobby (new, replacing the broken-down open cubbyholes from before), Raina’s name was still there, by itself, not as a couple with both names. Ilcho! Had he died even before her? On the fourth floor we knocked at one of the doors and Sonia, Vassil’s wife, came out. After a moment of consternation there were shrieks and hugs like we would come to find over and over during the week.

“You must go and see Mama!” She led us across the hall and opened the door to Petko and Gencha’s apartment, and Gencha came to the door looking as she always did, maybe just a little slower but smiling broadly as always. A granddaughter was there with her baby, a happy and busy little guy they called Dani, for Yordan. We all sat together for tea and cake as the baby played. In those moments it was as if no years had passed.

Our friend Ilcho had died four years ago, in his early forties, and Raina in January of this year. She was 46. Petko had died too. (You may recall he had been ill with heart problems, and had lost a leg. When we last saw him though, in May 2004, he had seemed robust and was tooling around proudly on crutches in his apartment.) He died a week after that visit. Baba Gencha told us that having her grandchildren nearby, with Baby Dani coming to visit and play, makes life worthwhile.

While we were in Pazardjik we were hosted by Stormy’s school colleague Vessi and her husband Miladin, “The Doctor.” They were such generous hosts, making sure we had everything we could need. After her stint as Stormy’s teaching counterpart when we were there, Vessi got a job with the Peace Corps teaching the new volunteers Bulgarian, and after the Peace Corps she ran for a city government position which gained her a fair amount of fame in town. Now she manages, along with its founder, an NGO that provides services to old people, including running two nursing homes. They have an office in the Center, four workers and a few occasional volunteers in a bright and roomy storefront where people drop in to make arrangements and do paperwork for all kinds of senior services. We went to the nearby village of Mokrishte to see one of their nursing homes where we visited with the staff (four new job positions for the village!) and talked (a little one-way, for some) with the nine residents of the home. One bed-ridden man greeted us in English, and the staff were amazed since he hardly spoke at all, with his stroke, let alone in perfect English. We also chatted with patrons of the Pensioners’ Club which was set up in connection with the home, in a large room on the ground floor.

At my old school, Bertolt Brecht, we walked up to the front door at the same time as my teaching counterpart of those twelve years ago, Vania. I called out her name and of course it was a shock for her to see us. Inside the building we met another English teacher, Lazarinka, who was just as surprised, and the building administrator Pepa who had been so helpful in arranging for our apartment and furnishings while I worked there. In the teachers’ room there were others who remembered us: hugs all around. After a quick flash of greetings, and admiring some modernizing changes and sprucing-up, we left for Stormy’s school. In both schools, the Principal (Direktor) whom we knew had retired. At Stormy’s school the new Direktor, Mr. Stoyanov, was in his office with Stoian, who had been Stormy’s counterpart and mentor for a time. Everywhere we went, there was a bow wave of surprise and recognition. The new Direktor at Stormy’s school phoned the previous one, Mr. Dimitrov, and Mr. Dimitrov suggested meeting for lunch. Sunday noon was agreed.

Best Day Ever

Store window: optimism on a shirt front

In Pazardjik we attended a birthday party for Miladin, went to the zoo, admired the new fountains and refurbished central plaza, and enjoyed walking around the busy Center with lots of people out and about, in and out of the shops and sitting in cafés. Some of the shops were familiar, unchanged from before, and many were new. We visited with Stormy’s old friend Ivan the Kseroks man, who was moved to tears at the joy of seeing Stormy again. He proudly told us that his new copy shop was his own, not just a rented space. He was the sobstvenik, owner. We were glad for his success, and he for our success in coming back in good health.

We asked Miladin about going out to the orphanage where Stormy and I had participated in activities with the children, and taught some English lessons. No go. Orphanage is closed. No more orphanages. As part of being part of the modern world, in particular being part of Europe, orphanages are no more. Children without parents are now entered into foster homes instead. Miladin, since he had been so close to the kids and had served as baptismal godfather to so many of them, says lots of them still stop by to see him and say hi, but the ones he knew back then are aging out of the system and starting independent lives. Not children, he says, but friends.

We took a day trip to Lucky, a village in the Rhodope Mountains. It has been three years since I wrote about our friend Elena, who grew up there, and how Connections Run Deep in that part of the world. Her parents live there, and they run a little store. We had gotten to know her mom, Sofi, while Elena had been hospitalized here in Denver. I texted Elena to ask her the address of the store; she said it doesn’t have an address but just ask anyone and they’ll tell you. “They all know each other.” So off we went. It was an hour and a half through beautiful mountain scenery, the last part on narrow winding roads with colorful vistas of yellow, gold and bronze splashed across narrow canyons and broad valleys. Entering the village, we stopped at a little shop and asked the sobstvenik if he could tell us how to find the Adamovi shop. “Of course! How do you know them?” When we said we knew their daughter he responded using her nickname, “Elenche? In America? I was her teacher! How is she?” Yes, small world. He gave us directions, straight ahead up the hill on the main road, can’t miss it.

We drove up the hill, all the way to the end of the town, turned around, and drove it again looking at every garage and house to see if it was a shop. At the top of the hill on the second try we asked another guy, and he pointed us across the valley, “you have to cross the bridge at the bottom of the hill, and it’s over there.” Back down, across the bridge, stopped at a different store to ask again. This time the directions were the same as from the first guy: back to the original side of the bridge and “straight ahead up the hill on the main road, can’t miss it.” We said we did that, several times, and didn’t see the place. A bystander, hearing this, said to follow him. He got in his car and started off, straight up the hill. This time, though, we saw our mistake as he led us past the edge of town and continued a half mile or so beyond the last house, to where there were more houses and — finally — a little shop by the side of the road!

Adamovi Shop

Simon Adamov in front of his shop

We pulled up behind Sofi as she was washing the windows of the dining room to the left of the main store. Her reaction, complete with astonished squeals and big hugs, told the guy who had led us up there that we were indeed friends, and not bill collectors. I thanked him profusely as he drove off, and we spent the next hour visiting with Sofi and her husband Simon, and Elena’s brother Mladen. As we were getting ready to go, Sofi was shocked that we couldn’t stay longer — stay for another coffee — stay for a meal — stay overnight — stay the week! She said a few words to Mladen and he left. Then each time we got up to go she said no, no, wait, Mladen will come back and he wants to say goodbye. She knew we had to go meet other people, but just not yet. Mladen came back with a meal, prepared to-go, from a restaurant. It was in a good-sized box, a sturdy fruit packing crate. There was enough food for ten people. “A little something so you won’t be hungry.” As we got in the car laden with her smiling generosity, she said she forgot something and went back into the store for bread. A big loaf of bread. You need bread! Eyeing the giant loaf, I said no, really, there’s plenty here and we don’t need bread. Later, Elena told us her mother texted her (about a hundred times!) telling her the whole story. She said Sofi was worried we didn’t have the bread.

In the beautiful city of Plovdiv we visited Rosen and his wife Tanya, in the new house that Rosen had built with his own hands. Beautiful home, on the outskirts of the city with convenient access to the city amenities. They have a new baby, Stella, and Rosen’s daughter Vessi was a delight to meet anew. She was only about five when we knew her, now such a fine young lady! We shared a wonderful meal with them, enough food for ten people, the generous hospitality sincerely appreciated. Separately, that afternoon, we had a visit with Pepa, meeting her husband and their delightful little daughters.

Mary and the PrincipalsOur last day was Sunday, the day Mr. Dimitrov had suggested meeting for lunch. He and Mr. Stoyanov came together to pick us up, and we went not to a restaurant but to Stoyanov’s apartment. There we met not only Mr. Dimitrov’s wife but also Gencha, the school secretary, and her husband. Gencha, from our story, had been very active in doing projects for the orphanage and had shared her love of that place with us. Stoyanov had prepared a full dinner, served in the traditional classic way with appetizers, salad courses, entrees, and dessert, with drinks to accompany each course.

Sunday Evening Folk DancingThat evening we met another former student of mine, Ralitsa, who is on the verge of suspending her busy international career in the tech world to undertake motherhood. She had suggested going to the Center for what has become a regular weekly event in Pazardjik: folk music and dancing. Hundreds of people were there, young and old, sharing and expanding the Bulgarian folk culture. Every dance, it seemed to me, was a different style. The rich variety was more than I could imagine keeping track of, though I’m sure that to the experienced the dances fit into categories with regular patterns. Rali got me to join in on a few of the easy ones and, like Miladin says, “Nobody died.”

Generous hospitality, smiles, open hearts of friends. These things last. We are so fortunate to have them in our lives.

Nothing More Than Nothing

It’s March, and in Colorado it’s snowing today! We had a sunny 73-degree day yesterday (23°C) and now there’s over a foot of fresh new snow on the ground. It’s still piling up as the daylight starts to fade. I’ve been warm inside, enjoying the luxury of seeing the beauty of it without having to be somewhere else. It makes me appreciate how much I like to be where I am.

I love the snow! The kid in me remembers the excitement, the delight of running in it, slipping and falling and sliding in it, eating it, throwing it, and the steamy wool smell of warming up after playing in it. As a grownup in my working years I lived in warm, sunny places — Texas, Thailand, Taiwan, and Southern California — until Stormy and I retired from regular work and went to Bulgaria as Peace Corps volunteers. We were so glad to get reacquainted with seasons! The sheer delight of seasonal changes included extremes of weather and temperature that we had not felt in years. It awakened those childhood memories for both of us. When we moved to Colorado a few years later we came into the realization that it’s something that we love. Change.

We’ve seen a lot of change in our lives. (I know, you don’t want me to start with the “When I was a kid” stories.) I went to a panel discussion about climate change last night, and a friend of mine has written a book on the matter. Harlow Hyde, served with us in Bulgaria. His book is titled Climate Change, of all things.1 Harlow is a numbers guy, and he has a serious background as a student of weather trends. He backs up his thesis with solid facts, and an engaging sense of humor. He rigorously lists all the big factors of climate, including the anthropogenic one (that’s us!) He lists and evaluates various links between human activity and rising global temperatures. After all, every single one of us little heat engines spend our lives turning food into energy, throwing off heat all the time! Then there’s the way we burn stuff, move stuff around, and make stuff out of other stuff. Just a little bit of heat from each activity, each individual one of us making hardly enough to matter. (He repents, actually, for his part in this travesty.) Well, I don’t want to give away the plot and you should really read it yourself. It’s an excellent and well-researched piece of work.

And politics — talk about change! What, are there changes in the country? Um, yes. What happened to Hope and Change? We’re seeing Panic and Change! Frenzy and Change! Fear and Change! But change, as always, is the constant. We live in it, react to it, and make it happen — or, depending on the subject, try to keep it from happening. Ha! Might as well try to keep the sea from rising.

Take closing the borders, sending people back to where they came from, for example. Can anyone have a civil conversation on that subject? I wonder. I know people who are working with refugee resettlement agencies, helping war refugees — refugees from bombing and fires and knives and threats and killings, who have lived in refugee camps for years and years, in tents or temporary shelters with freezing winter huddle-around-a-fire misery or desert scorching hot blazing-sun misery, relieved to be out of mortal danger but living in uncertainty and frustrated with slow-molasses bureaucracy and hopeful, ever hopeful of a life where they can work and raise their children in peace. And I know other people who call that kind of work, helping those people settle in America, dangerous, foolhardy, even treasonous. We can’t know they won’t bring their wars here, they say, and turn on us. They’ll bring their laws with them. They’ll take our jobs from us. Our economy can’t bear the burden. We can’t bear the burden.

snow treeToday’s snowfall is a burden on the trees. It’s heavy and wet, as is normal for snows this late in the season, so I put on my big-boy boots and went out with a long stick to knock the big fat clumps off some of the branches that were sagging heavily under the weight. We’ve had branches, big ones, break off with that kind of load. I couldn’t reach all of them that needed it, but it was the lower ones anyway that were reaching out farther, straining and nearly defeated under the heaviest loads. Needless to say, they were greatly relieved.

I thought of a little story about snowflakes. I read it as part of a 50th Anniversary memorial ceremony a few years ago, for Peace Corps volunteers who had died in service. It was called Nothing More Than Nothing.

“Tell me the weight of a snowflake,” a coalmouse asked a wild dove.

“Nothing more than nothing,” was the answer.

“In that case, I must tell you a marvelous story,” the coalmouse said. “I sat on the branch of a fir, close to its trunk, when it began to snow – not heavily, not in a raging blizzard – no, just like in a dream, without a sound and without any violence. Since I did not have anything better to do, I counted the snowflakes settling on the twigs and needles of my branch. Their number was exactly 3,741,952. When the 3,741,953rd dropped onto the branch, nothing more than nothing, as you say – the branch broke off.”

Having said that, the coalmouse flew away.

The dove, since Noah’s time an authority on the matter, thought about the story for awhile, and finally said to herself, “Perhaps there is only one person’s voice lacking for peace to come to the world.”

  — from New Fables, by Kurt Kauter (1913-2002)2

One more. Perhaps.